You love too soon and too much, you are bound to experience heart break. You trust too soon and too much; you live a life run and ruined by others. You hate too much and too soon, you end up alone. You judge too much and too soon you can never grow. You fear too much and too soon you can never experience the true joy and adrenaline rush in life.
Too much and too soon and you are doomed. With the kind of digitalized generation we are becoming, too soon too much can be our official hashtag. We are in this constant struggle to ace everything. Be perfect. Do it all. All or none. Accomplish everything in one go. Cut off ties. Become “independent”. Not cry. Not ask for help. Not learn. Not bend. Not fall weak.
We take life as a perfect example of tit for tat. But what we forget in the process is the ability to understand that there is no formula for acing life. Life happens when we barely notice. Life happens when we sit back and enjoy a sip of coffee. Life happens when we instead of running away from our fears face them in the eye, learn and then grow. Life happens when we understand the meaning of “compassion”. Life happens when we understand and endorse the fact that the only constant in life is “change”. Life happens when we understand that sometimes broken relationships are far better than disturbed ones. Life happens when we surrender to the fact that people change, priorities change but life moves on!!
We worry so often about our appearance, our impression, our impact our desires and our wishes that we often forget to sketch a fine line that distinguishes us from animals. An animal is only concerned of itself and its offspring that too until it is well grown. They do not set boundaries. They are after all calls ANIMALS for a reason. They seldom outgrow their physiological needs. Everything is OK in their world. Sleeping with their own kids, eating off garbage, scratching the shit outta each other for food and shelter, howling and executing a crazy frenzy. No I am not talking about the modern day confused liberal. I am still talking about an ANIMAL. But the question is have we become one?
In the race to ace it all, we humans have forgotten our own worth. I see young girls stoop low to an unimaginable level just to gain ATTENTION. Totally unaware of what a maniac they seem to the world. I have seen folks go crazy for some monetary gain. Who once called each other friends turn out to be backstabbing bastards. I have seen siblings turn into rivals just for the INHERITED property. I have seen FATHERS rape their own DAUGHTERS. What worse could have I seen. What worse!! Alas!!
To me if you ask what the humans of this world lack? I’d say just being HUMAN. As a friend once said and I quote; “This world is our only home; lets be more tolerant.”
Love and Peace!!
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